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Local Districts Preparing to Help Frightened Students

School administrators held emergency meetings Friday around the area; will have counselors in place Monday in schools.

School districts across the region are responding to the shooting tragedy in a Connecticut Elementary school with shock while preparing to comfort children returning to school on Monday.

Many districts held emergency meetings Friday afternoon and plan early morning meetings Monday to provide psychological assistance to traumatized local students.

"We are deeply sorry about this tragedy," said Dr. Lorna Lewis, superintendent of Plainview-Old Bethpage schools. "But we are already looking at preparations for Monday, when the children return to school."

Lewis and other area school administrators say the challenge will be comforting the issue with young children who have been exposed to a weekend of disturbing images on television and social media. Teams of social workers and psychologists will be in place Monday to look for warning signs and children unable to comprehend the tragedy.

"All the school principals were alerted to the crisis this afternoon and asked to alert their staffs to be prepared to have a faculty meeting first thing Monday morning," said Robert Schilling, executive director for assessment, student data and technology services at Massapequa Public Schools.

"We'll have social workers, psychologists helping our teachers prepare for whatever comes," Lewis said, adding the faculty will be guided to look for signs of distress among their students.

Schilling said his district is following events in Connecticut and will continue to implement its regular security protocols. An additional adult presence was called in and was visible during dismissal Friday afternoon, he said. Security measures in Massapequa and Plainview are typical of other local districts. A security team is in place in the schools; doors are locked and visitors are signed in and monitored.

Nothing, however, short of an armed police presence, can protect every school from the carnage evident at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newton, Conn., administrators agreed.

"One incident like this could never fully prepare us for the next one," Lewis said.

Local districts have security teams that assess national incidents like this one and go over "tabletop" procedures to attempt to manage similar emergencies, Schilling said.

Among them is Oyster Bay-East Norwich schools, which outlines its detailed plan on its website. The District-Wide Safety Team assesses potential threats to the school and its students. The panel, which meets regularly, is comprised of every school principal, administrators, the high school nurse and head custodians.

For the moment, the biggest threat is fear:

Experts suggested that parents of younger children limit their access to news media and details of the tragedy. Massapequa issued a statement on its website saying that "excessive and repeated exposure to this traumatic information can cause increased anxiety among children."

Administrators urged parents to take time to help children appropriately process the information. Plainview released information to parents on how to talk about school violence with their kids. See it here or the attached pdf file.

Many districts, including Plainview and Massapequa, will have pupil personnel and counselors available in each building for further support, school leaders said.

"We can only hope and pray the children are not affected long term by this tragedy," Dr. Lewis said.

Simba December 14, 2012 at 10:52 PM
Let's start be reviewing the safety conditions in the schools and make absolutely sure that there is no way to enter the schools unless challenged in some way. It is way to easy to gain access into our schools.
Heidi Ovental Taylor December 14, 2012 at 11:05 PM
We will not watch the news while our children are around. There is no need to expose them to this
Yankee Man December 14, 2012 at 11:13 PM
Heres one mans point of view on telling the kids. DONT!! I have turned off the Tv today and will not talk about this horrible incident with my 8 year old. I do not think he can understand the weight on this incident, so why even tell him. He cant understand it, so what exactly would be gained by telling him. There are thousands of dangers out there that little kids dont need to be told about. If they cannot do anything to control it, ignore it. Yes I have instructed him about strangers and other hazards that can happen and be avoided. I have older kids ( teens) and have discussed mass shooting incidents and how to survive such things. Prayers to the surving family members out there and I hope that someday you can be happy again. I cannot watch your sorrow, for it is to difficult to bare.
Theresa Rogers December 15, 2012 at 12:53 PM
I agree, I will not have my children watch the t.v. about this. They are 7 and 10 and I don't feel that they need to be exposed to this. I guess I will go in Monday to the school to make sure they won't be discussing this in the classroom.
Sharon December 15, 2012 at 07:10 PM
It doesn't matter if you don't allow the young children to watch the events on TV. Their friends are all talking about it, it's on facebook and in everyone's conversations from the bank to the supermarket. Better to limit their information and reassure theim with love and support.
LAKETAJO December 16, 2012 at 02:48 PM
I agree with not exposing young children to this horrific act but I do think parents should be educatiinally prepared to answer any questions they may have. Sometimes totaly ignoring something makes them go inside their imaginations & can be mor detrimental.
LAKETAJO December 16, 2012 at 03:40 PM
I do agree that young children should not be exposed to this horrific incident but I also think that parent's should be educationally prepared to anwer any questions they may have. Sometimes completely ignoring can be severely detrimental. And please, as we continue to love and hold our own children let's keep these heartbroken families in our and prayers.
JOE December 17, 2012 at 05:05 AM
Do not let these children die in vain every parent in america should be calling up there politicians tomorrow and tell them to pass gun legislation. The 2nd amendment right argument is bullshit. the right to bear arms does not mean the right to carry assault rifles. To thr NRA supporters , you should rip your membership cards up.
LAKETAJO December 18, 2012 at 05:21 PM
Joe...Amen.

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